Wednesday, August 5, 2015

COMING TO AMERICA

By
JOHN SCHERBER


COMING TO AMERICA

         Until my last trip, I had never seen a sixty-mile long strip mall, but then I hadn’t visited the States for five years and you never know what improvements might have been put in place. Coming in through security in Houston, I was groped more than what I imagine goes on in the average New Orleans gay bar after midnight. I suppose this is the new touchy-feely policy of the TSA. Give security a more human face.

         My destination was a chain of island cities off Pensacola. I discovered it’s a hopping area, although few of the people are under seventy, and if you revert to a gentler, more Mexican-style pace as you drive, you’re likely to get a little friendly nudge on your rear bumper.
         I was traveling along what appeared to be a long white sand barrier island edging the Florida panhandle. The white sand peeks through here and there in small, protected zones, and all the rest is ruthlessly paved over. Highway 98 is the corridor that goes on and on, through Mary Esther, Destin, Fort Walton Beach, and others. Aside from the charmingly antique character of parts of Mary Esther, thee towns seem indistinguishable. And don’t ask, like I did, about her sister Polly. They’ve heard that one before and you get glared at.
         After living in México for eight years I had gotten used to a much different lifestyle. One with local organic markets, one that often means traveling on foot, one with admittedly less shopping. Sometimes you have to dig a bit for your size jeans, and your breed of vacuum cleaner filters can be elusive, even at the place that sold you the vacuum.

         One solution is the shopping trip to the north. I was really there for a wedding, but the shopping took up most of my time after the airline lost my luggage coming in. As far as anyone could tell me, it had arrived safely in Raleigh, North Carolina and only a day late. Thank God my rental car had a GPS to guide me to the stores, because I felt much like Ma and Pa Kettle, the yokels who came to town with catastrophic results in a series of about ten films in the forties and fifties.
         Some things I did know. Driving is different in the States. For example, stop signs do matter. You may not drive the wrong way on a one-way street. Speed limits are not a tasteless joke. There is no free style driving there, such as we enjoy so much in México, where it can be a source of both creative fulfillment and raucous humor in an otherwise overworked life.
         I found I had to focus on traffic lights to see them. We don’t have any at home. In México you tend to look down as you drive, not up, just to watch for the pavement to disappear with no warning. I had to remember to stop at stop signs. In San Miguel they’re conceptual. Of course they exist, but the general view is that they’re there to show you what one would look like if one were there. You’d never stop for it unless failing to stop would result in an accident. I guess in that respect, they work pretty well. In eight years I’ve never had an accident, and I’ve stopped for one about six times altogether.
         Three days into the visit, I was still waiting for my luggage and starting to avoid close contact with people because of my smell. Even bathing often doesn’t work that well if you climb back into the same clothes that you earlier stood in the corner. I was starting to dread the wedding.
         I had forgotten how enormous the stores are. Mixed with all the discount outlets are numerous walled shopping cities for the working poor, called Targets. In places like that in México you would find entire families living quite contentedly under the counters. Every now and then someone would reach up and pluck a shirt off the stack, or a pair of knee socks. No one would know.
         In the States they attempt to teach children English from an early age and many adults know and use it too, although manners are quickly forgotten. Few youngsters around the age of ten appear to have full time jobs. You have to wonder what they do all day. I fear it gives them the wrong idea about how easy life is. I had to remind myself not to keep complimenting people on how good their English was when I observed that many responded with a sour look. Maybe it was only my own way of patting myself on the back for how well I remembered it.
         My luggage arrived just in time for the wedding. I repacked all the clothes I had bought in the same bags with the appropriate receipts. Fortunately I had kept the addresses of all the stores so I could find my way back to return my purchases.

         The wedding was a joyous affair on the beach in a forty-mile-an-hour gale coming off the Gulf. The women’s hair all shot out in a straight line to the landward side of their heads. Because most seemed to be bowing and bent over nearly double, at first I thought they were all humbled by the honor of being invited. Then I realized they were merely trying to keep their skirts down around their legs. Even with preoccupations like these, many had a jolly good time, judging from how disheveled everyone was on leaving.

         The next day I was not sorry to leave myself, although on arrival in Houston, I ran into a rainstorm that dropped ten inches on the city in five hours. Naturally all planes were grounded, even the ones they couldn’t find. Yet, in a touching awareness of symmetry and its uses, on the following day my recently recovered luggage went to Querétaro while I went to León.
         At home I spent some time on the customer service line trying to straighten this out. The representative closed by saying to me, “Thanks for flying the friendly skies.”
         “And may the farce be with you,” I replied.
         I climbed the stairs to my second floor terrace feeling like I needed a vacation.

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